"share your joys.hide your sorrows"
words of wisdom i came across as i blog hop today....im sorry to say i cant recall who the blogger was but he was quoting some person.thought i share with u all my thoughts and views of that.
i like to think of myself a very private person.this blog has been the most public i think ive ever known to open up to anyone.ive been told,i always look so carefee,so unproblematic.alhamdullillah....coz that is wat i want to potray to you all.because i will always remember that whenever ive gone thru shitty stuff,the person who is next to me would always be someone who must have gone thru shittier stuff.the person who is beside you will be someone who has gone thru a lot more experience than i have.then again,maybe coz i dun have enough experience...
age matures a person im told.but does it?the older you are the more mature you get?the older you are,the more experience you have encountered.the more shitty stuff you have conquered.then again,why should another shoulder our sorrows when they have their own sorrows to consider?
my answer would be....because as human beings,we are weak.we need help always.not till we burden another of coz.sometimes we dont want the other person to do anything,just to lend a listening ear and a shoulder to cry on.so another person does not shoulder our sorrows.they just help us focus and regroup.then the experience sharing will start and you realise that 'hey,yours are not that bad.others got it worse" and then you learn to be thankful.
but personally,i stick by that motto."share your joys,hide your sorrows".no matter how crappy i feel like for that day,no matter how bad my day had been for that day,i dun have a right to take it out on another person without them allowing me to.
to me,actually,its a privilege if someone choose u to share their sorrows for then u know that this person really values you,trust u enough.its kind of sad when someone whom u consider ur fren does not even approach u when dia in trouble rite?you might not be able to help much but hey,u could try.
am i rambling or am i giving constructive comments here?hahaha...
